The unimaginable and our way through
read more…: The unimaginable and our way throughToday I opened an email no parent wants to read: disaster behavioral health counselors would be at my children’s school to help process an untimely student death.
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Today I opened an email no parent wants to read: disaster behavioral health counselors would be at my children’s school to help process an untimely student death.
Facebook reminded me that two years ago I had this crazy idea for a summer “pop-up cafe” series that would simultaneously build community, provide charity donations for up to 10 organizations, allow youth in need of summer employment to work on a worthy community endeavor, and allow established and emerging restaurant and catering companies a chance to explore some new offerings or expose a new market to their food.
“My child came home with another student’s notebook. When I asked my child about who it belonged too, they said it belonged to a friend in their class. I noticed inside the notebook that there were suggestive pictures in the book. On another page there was a note that said “please stop hurting me.” I am so worried about this child and I don’t know what to do!”
Latasha Jackson of Fort Worth, TX, lost her parents to domestic violence when her father murdered her mother and then killed himself. Her mother died trying to protect her children and now my friend runs an organization called “ I Am Cheryl’s Voice” because that is her calling now that her mother Cheryl can’t speak for herself.
A reader asks if there’s any truth in the countless online personality tests she’s taking. Dr. Brady has an answer.
Dear Dr. Brady: I have been out of the job market for several months until recently due to managing a chronic illness. I have a lot of talent and have a few promising options to pursue. I find myself feeling paralyzed as I put myself out there; I really want this next position to be one that I can flourish in but after my last employer I wonder if any company can be a good fit. I want an environment that values me and my skills, not just the products of these. How do I pick a match that will work for me as I return to full time work?
If it seems like maybe school isn’t really for boys, it isn’t surprising that some boys find themselves tuning out and turning away from school, or school-like activities, at fairly early ages. And this matters, because boys have higher drop-out rates in high school and enter college at lower rates than girls.
When it comes to managing other people’s conflict I heard a great line this week: “Not my circus, not my monkeys.” While this is a cute mental image it reminds me that the conflict other people have rarely has anything to do with us, even when they try to make it about us.
A Reader wants to know if long-term pot smoking has made his co-workers dangerously crazy, or if it’s just ‘the New Hampshire way.’ Read on for Dr. Brady’s thoughtful response.
“As nervous as you are for this review, keep in mind that his history of outbursts reveals how anxious he is feeling.”
A must read: Dr. Loretta Brady shares a personal story of her own destructive thoughts, and explores the fine line that separates normal suicidal thoughts from those that lead to devastating action.
This is one of the painful aspects of being human; an awareness and desire for connection with others and a deep well of need that never stays satisfied for long.
Shared custody challenges: ‘She is going to be his daughter for the rest of her life, through close and distant times, so figuring this out isn’t something you should do for her. ‘
Dr. Loretta Brady with advice for helping you steer through the chaos of life, toward clarity. Today’s question: My daughter is obsesses with make-up videos. I’d like to steer her toward STEM endeavors. HELP!
Too much calm, we stay on the couch watching “Facts of Life” reruns when we should be studying. Too much fear, and we stay on the couch watching “Facts of Life” reruns … that wasn’t a typo.
My hope is that this column will serve as a compass for readers seeking clarity in the chaos of their businesses, personal lives, or relationships. From time to time we will have guest columnists offer their insight on a challenge. This information is simply opinion, but I hope you will share your stories so that others can gain clarity for themselves. Questions are powerful. We hope you will share yours here.